What makes me always think about her
Your Scarcity Mindset – this is what makes you always think about her.
You probably think that you will never find another one as good as her.
You are wrong – if you would stop bitch*ng and get grinding pretty soon you will realize that you’ve been missing out on a lot of beautiful available women.
All this because you’re hung up on your big love.
What can I do about it?
You need to change your mindset from a Scarcity Mindset into an Abundance Mindset.
What does this mean?
It means changing your approach towards life and towards women.
The Scarcity Mindset keeps you limited to one woman, you are afraid to loose her because you do not have other women and because you cannot get other women (because of your Scarcity Mindset).
Ask yourself – is this girl the absolute best I can do? Could I do much better?
If the answer is NO then you have a very big problem, you’re probably hanging after this girl really bad. Escaping the Scarcity Mindset will be difficult for you – but not impossible.
If the answer is YES then you are on the right track – now you know that you can get better quality women, you just don’t know exactly how to achieve this.
This is what this website intends to show you – how to attract quality women with the least effort and resources.
How long is this going to last?
It’s going to last untill she no longer means something to you.
Now, here are the reasons why she would start meaning nothing to you (at some point):
- you have found another girl that blew your socks off and forgot about your ex (yes, it is possible, stop being limited in what you think you can achieve)
- you’ve moved on (you have decided that the past is the past and what happened no longer bothers you)
- she dies (this is an unfortunate situation but nevertheless it can happen. By no means should she die by your hands !!! This is a dating website not a serial killer website!!!)
What to do until I get over her
After the breakup you will end up with a lot of free time, its the time that you were spending with her.
Do not sit at home alone looking at the walls – this will definitely drive you crazy and its only going to make it harder for yourself.
You should use your new time to change your Scarcity Mindset into an Abundance Mindset.
You should go out with friends, co-workers, family, even go out alone to get used to being by yourself.
Should I call her?
If you call her you only really give her the option to reject you which will make things even worse for you.
It’s on to talk to her only if she calls first.