For Men - Dates Ideas That Lead To Sex

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By Kurt Dight

If the reason you're dating is to have sex, then you need to read this article. In it you'll learn what type of specific�sex dates�help you achieve your goal.

First, know this: movie and dinner dates are no good. The movies are something you did when you were a teenager. And besides, you'll get little chance of�creating attraction, when you both are staring out a giant movie screen instead of interacting with one another. The point: the focus is on something other than you.

Dinner dates, however put too much focus on each of you. It's more like a job interview than an atmosphere of seduction. It's perfect for�polite conversation. And guess what polite conversation does? Kills every ounce of attraction!

Here's what you need: to get her heart racing, to show you aren't an "average guy", and set up atmospheres where making physical contact is natural and in fact, encouraged. I will now give you�specific date�examples that do just that.

Know this: women usually assume we have a link between a good dancer and�a good lover. But boring is taking her to a nightclub, where the music is loud and you can't even hear what she is saying to you. Much better are dance classes. Now, dance classes in general are highly feminine, and make people question your sexual preference. Except for one kind of dance...

The tango.

It is one of passionate dance there is. It assures you'll have close physical contact. This protects the sense of touch. The music will sound sensual, this protects the sense of hearing. And moving quickly, in powerful strides will look after the sense of sight. See how you are stimulating her? Try that on a dinner date. This works even better if you're not some tango guru. Why? Because it takes out the tension of this particular intimate act of dancing. You can laugh at each others mistakes, but make no mistake about this: a tango class will help your chances of�creating attraction�with her.

What else can you do? That you can do what I call the "James Bond" date. Bond is the quin-essential�ladies man. Mostly, because he is courageous and bold. While the majority of us aren't international spies, we can steal a little bit of Bond's game.

Hit the casino.

It's a great place to get her adrenaline pumping. Drop some money on the tables, hit a 21, down a few cocktails. Have fun. Not, "I have to call 1-800-bets-off because I've got a serious gambling problem". She likes fun. She doesn't like a gambling addict. So make it more about having fun than winning or losing money. Oh, and keep the drinks flowing. By having a night full of risks, you'll encourage her to be more of a risk taker. And this can translate into doing things with you she normally wouldn't think of doing. Get it?

Onward.

Role playing is a terrific way to seduce. It's because we feel like we are in character, thin result of our actions don't necessary reflect on who we are. What's this mean? One thing - costume party. The right party, coupled with�the perfect outfit, is a seduction escapade waiting to happen. Have her act like a sexy icon, and she'll be more inclined to continue playing that role for you after the party is over.

Let's bring it to a close. Here are three ideas you can play with. I encourage you to find and create more. Just remember, don't do boring, average wussy�kind of dates, unless you goal of dating is something other than physical contact. Make it original, exciting and stimulating. Then you'll be, in her eyes, an exciting and�stimulating man.

Also, check out my other guide on�marriage help�and�questions relationship

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For Men - Dates Ideas That Lead To Sex

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